INVICTUS • velvetcyberpunk: lex-is-evolving: ...

velvetcyberpunk:

lex-is-evolving:

skinnidreams:

stuffingkit:

thehungryhungryemo:

s-eaminor:

stuffingkit:

mooseham:

stuffingkit:

smok3-w33d-3rrd4y:

chubby-dreaded-adorable:

his cat.
is in the palm.
of his hand.

I don’t understand.
He. Must. Be. A. Chunky. Chaser.
But never in my life have I seen something as odd as this.

Actually it’s my cat. Actually he is a bf who loves his gf’s fat BOD. And you spelled majestic wrong. “But never in my life have I seen something as majestic as this.”

These two were in a program called
‘My big fat fetish’ Made my Channel 4 in england.
He is deliberately feeding her stupid amounts of unhealthy food to make her fatter.
I Love my chubby ladies, but i feel like what he is doing to her is really quite awful and unhealthy.

Okay, Now this is what I was waiting for. I love how automatically you can analyze the healthiness of our relationship after watching a CHANNEL 4 documentary I was in. I love how you, reblog this, to try and police my life and to try and demystify the meaning of the photo, as if it is something I HIDE. Like “HOLD UP EVERYONE, BEFORE WE START OPENING OUT MINDS AND APPRECIATING ALL LIFESTYLES READ THIS REAL QUICK” If you watched that doc, and all that you got out of it is OMG THIS GUY IS MAKING HER UNHEALTHY OMG then anything I say to you is pointless. Did you ever stop to think that maybe I have my own sexuality? That Feederism is apart of MY life? That it is my choice what I do with my body? When you say “omg HE IS DOING THIS” you are desexualizing me as a woman, you are taking away my choice in this and boiling it down to something that is being done to me. So first off all, here:

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Now let me educate you all of the people who are now questioning the validity of what I do and say and worst of all QUESTIONING MY RELATIONSHIPS POSITIVITY:

Feederism describes sexual relationships where both members obtain gratification from the gaining of body fat. Feederism refers to the acts of feeding, encouraging eating, or being served large quantities of food. Sexual pleasure is derived from the act of eating itself, and/or from the process of becoming fatter. Pleasure may be derived from specific changes to specific areas of the body.
It really is not that difficult to understand. The problem is that is makes you uncomfortable, you cant even fathom a situation where someone can actually be happy looking the way I do and feeling the way I feel. All you can do to cope with the heebie jeebies you get from judging me is assert your sad and confused little feelings into my life to try and correct me. And let’s be honest here, what does my body, my sexuality, my mental health mean to YOU.Absolutely nothing, So take your misguided deductions to someone who gives a fuck, because I refuse to stop being a fat fabulous freak that wants to eat the FUCK outta some cheesecake because it makes you, some rude little stranger, UNCOMFORTABLE.
And P.S I am not a “chubby lady”
I’m Fat.
And that is okay.
My sexuality is mine and I choose to share it with a partner who gets off to the same things I do.

Kit, you are just perfect~!!!I wish I could ask you questions…idk if that sounds rude or not….i don’t mean it that way at all.I love this, y’all are so cute together♥

Man, I don’t even approve of feeding as a fetish and I’m annoyed.
1; the picture depicts what is clearly a happy couple (which, true, can be misleading, but srsly, you’re gonna ASSUME every relationship is abusive?)
2; you cannot even remotely guess from the picture that the couple has an unusual sexual dynamic (same as with ANY pic of any person or couple or group or two guys, a moose and six chairs).
3; so… you saw them on tv in a show about this particular fetish, so you *are* vaguely aware of their unusual preference and that’s what bothers you? you’re bothered by the fact that this couple derives sexual pleasure from a feeder/eater dynamic? why? how does it affect you? are you one of those people who wretches at the thought of two men fucking like monkeys, too? WHY. double u to the aych to the WHY.
What on earth do the things loving consensual people do in the privacy of their home have to do with you?
Now, the reason I don’t approve of this fetish is because, to *ME* it’s not healthy. But it has nothing to do with me. I choose not to engage in this activity. that’s all there is to it. I don’t get any other say. (the only reason i’m pointing it out is to illustrate my point).
Why am I rambling about this? Because it frustrates me to no end when people think that something people do sexually is an issue. as long as no one gets hurt (against their will), it’s fine.
How is being fed large amounts of food different that a healthy D/s relationship where the D inflicts (desired) pain on the (consenting) s? They LIKE it. That’s all that matters.
It doesn’t affect me. If doesn’t affect you. It doesn’t affect Obama, Romney or Abraham Lincoln in any way. It only affects them and how happy they are.
Just. Don’t.
Son, just don’t.

I am reblogging again for great commentary. I really like what was said by “thehungryhungryemo” and I felt inspired to expand a bit more on the health topic.
Total body Health for any human being is a complicated and private issue. But especially for fat people(the rest of the world considers it a public affair), to further sub-categorize, especially for fat people with this fetish.
Im going to be frank, at face value feederism is not healthy. But what people do not understand is this:
We do not choose our sexuality. There is no switch to flip. When you say “KIT THIS IS UNHEALTHY” It’s not like my brain goes: “oh wait, what? Really? I mean, gosh how could I miss that, let me just re-wire my brian real fast so I can live a healthy(Socially acceptable) life style”
I know. I know. I know.
This is who I am. This is apart of me. This is how my brain has worked since I was a child. We can go back and forth on whether it was nurture or nature, but we cant deny the simple fact that it is what it is and I have accepted that. Why should I be shamed for accepting myself in the adversity?
But lets get one thing straight, Skinniness does not equal health and health does not equal moral superiority. TOTAL body health, that includes my mental health. And being sexually repressed directly jeopardizes that, it creates a vicious cycle of fear shame and anxiety and thats simple not a healthy(since we love that word SO much!!!) Way to live.
I know its weird to you, I know you don’t understand, I know you don’t think its healthy. Guess what, You don’t have to live the way I do. My message has always been simple: Accept YOURSELF and do WHAT YOU WANT TO DO with YOUR life.
Thats what I do, and trust I’ve been down the other road before. I’ve been through the cycles of shame and frustration. Its funny, as children we are taught(At least in my experience) BE YOURSELF BE YOURSELF BE YOURSELF only to have that entire ideology flipped on us when the “self” that we are is anything but the norm. The true message is this “Be yourself, unless that self involves anything that mainstream culture doesn’t approve of, then change and change and change, until you fit out perfect mold for the human being.” And I just don’t have time. I believe in self-actualization, and accepting my strange sexuality is a huge part of that. Im not sorry if that offends you. Your offense if your damn problem. You fear of a lifestyle that is radically different from any you can imagine is veiled behind your “concern” for my health.
This isnt addressed to anyone particular, just a general point about the health matter.
I will answering those questions in more detail in an upcoming youtube vid hopefully next week.

Comments.

Yes but all that aside, opinions or not, being the weight she is isn’t healthy. Plain and simple. I have no fear of her lifestyle and sexuality. Just too much weight for her body to function as healthily as it should and could.
Why have you made her health your business? Why do you care that she’s big? Why do you care that she may or may not be healthy other than to police her life and using the tired excuse that health matters when everyone knows it’s just a way to be able to rip on a fat person without looking shallow?

lex-is-evolving:

skinnidreams:

stuffingkit:

thehungryhungryemo:

s-eaminor:

stuffingkit:

mooseham:

stuffingkit:

smok3-w33d-3rrd4y:

chubby-dreaded-adorable:

his cat.

is in the palm.

of his hand.

I don’t understand.

He. Must. Be. A. Chunky. Chaser.

But never in my life have I seen something as odd as this.

Actually it’s my cat. Actually he is a bf who loves his gf’s fat BOD. And you spelled majestic wrong. “But never in my life have I seen something as majestic as this.”

These two were in a program called

‘My big fat fetish’ Made my Channel 4 in england.

He is deliberately feeding her stupid amounts of unhealthy food to make her fatter.

I Love my chubby ladies, but i feel like what he is doing to her is really quite awful and unhealthy.

Okay, Now this is what I was waiting for. I love how automatically you can analyze the healthiness of our relationship after watching a CHANNEL 4 documentary I was in. I love how you, reblog this, to try and police my life and to try and demystify the meaning of the photo, as if it is something I HIDE. Like “HOLD UP EVERYONE, BEFORE WE START OPENING OUT MINDS AND APPRECIATING ALL LIFESTYLES READ THIS REAL QUICK” If you watched that doc, and all that you got out of it is OMG THIS GUY IS MAKING HER UNHEALTHY OMG then anything I say to you is pointless. Did you ever stop to think that maybe I have my own sexuality? That Feederism is apart of MY life? That it is my choice what I do with my body? When you say “omg HE IS DOING THIS” you are desexualizing me as a woman, you are taking away my choice in this and boiling it down to something that is being done to me. So first off all, here:

\

Now let me educate you all of the people who are now questioning the validity of what I do and say and worst of all QUESTIONING MY RELATIONSHIPS POSITIVITY:

Feederism describes sexual relationships where both members obtain gratification from the gaining of body fat. Feederism refers to the acts of feeding, encouraging eating, or being served large quantities of food. Sexual pleasure is derived from the act of eating itself, and/or from the process of becoming fatter. Pleasure may be derived from specific changes to specific areas of the body.

It really is not that difficult to understand. The problem is that is makes you uncomfortable, you cant even fathom a situation where someone can actually be happy looking the way I do and feeling the way I feel. All you can do to cope with the heebie jeebies you get from judging me is assert your sad and confused little feelings into my life to try and correct me. And let’s be honest here, what does my body, my sexuality, my mental health mean to YOU.Absolutely nothing, So take your misguided deductions to someone who gives a fuck, because I refuse to stop being a fat fabulous freak that wants to eat the FUCK outta some cheesecake because it makes you, some rude little stranger, UNCOMFORTABLE.

And P.S I am not a “chubby lady”

I’m Fat.

And that is okay.

My sexuality is mine and I choose to share it with a partner who gets off to the same things I do.

Kit, you are just perfect~!!!
I wish I could ask you questions…idk if that sounds rude or not….i don’t mean it that way at all.
I love this, y’all are so cute together♥

Man, I don’t even approve of feeding as a fetish and I’m annoyed.

1; the picture depicts what is clearly a happy couple (which, true, can be misleading, but srsly, you’re gonna ASSUME every relationship is abusive?)

2; you cannot even remotely guess from the picture that the couple has an unusual sexual dynamic (same as with ANY pic of any person or couple or group or two guys, a moose and six chairs).

3; so… you saw them on tv in a show about this particular fetish, so you *are* vaguely aware of their unusual preference and that’s what bothers you? you’re bothered by the fact that this couple derives sexual pleasure from a feeder/eater dynamic? why? how does it affect you? are you one of those people who wretches at the thought of two men fucking like monkeys, too? WHY. double u to the aych to the WHY.

What on earth do the things loving consensual people do in the privacy of their home have to do with you?

Now, the reason I don’t approve of this fetish is because, to *ME* it’s not healthy. But it has nothing to do with me. I choose not to engage in this activity. that’s all there is to it. I don’t get any other say. (the only reason i’m pointing it out is to illustrate my point).

Why am I rambling about this? Because it frustrates me to no end when people think that something people do sexually is an issue. as long as no one gets hurt (against their will), it’s fine.

How is being fed large amounts of food different that a healthy D/s relationship where the D inflicts (desired) pain on the (consenting) s? They LIKE it. That’s all that matters.

It doesn’t affect me. If doesn’t affect you. It doesn’t affect Obama, Romney or Abraham Lincoln in any way. It only affects them and how happy they are.

Just. Don’t.

Son, just don’t.

I am reblogging again for great commentary. I really like what was said by “thehungryhungryemo” and I felt inspired to expand a bit more on the health topic.

Total body Health for any human being is a complicated and private issue. But especially for fat people(the rest of the world considers it a public affair), to further sub-categorize, especially for fat people with this fetish.

Im going to be frank, at face value feederism is not healthy. But what people do not understand is this:

We do not choose our sexuality. There is no switch to flip. When you say “KIT THIS IS UNHEALTHY” It’s not like my brain goes: “oh wait, what? Really? I mean, gosh how could I miss that, let me just re-wire my brian real fast so I can live a healthy(Socially acceptable) life style”

I know. I know. I know.

This is who I am. This is apart of me. This is how my brain has worked since I was a child. We can go back and forth on whether it was nurture or nature, but we cant deny the simple fact that it is what it is and I have accepted that. Why should I be shamed for accepting myself in the adversity?

But lets get one thing straight, Skinniness does not equal health and health does not equal moral superiority. TOTAL body health, that includes my mental health. And being sexually repressed directly jeopardizes that, it creates a vicious cycle of fear shame and anxiety and thats simple not a healthy(since we love that word SO much!!!) Way to live.

I know its weird to you, I know you don’t understand, I know you don’t think its healthy. Guess what, You don’t have to live the way I do. My message has always been simple: Accept YOURSELF and do WHAT YOU WANT TO DO with YOUR life.

Thats what I do, and trust I’ve been down the other road before. I’ve been through the cycles of shame and frustration. Its funny, as children we are taught(At least in my experience) BE YOURSELF BE YOURSELF BE YOURSELF only to have that entire ideology flipped on us when the “self” that we are is anything but the norm. The true message is this “Be yourself, unless that self involves anything that mainstream culture doesn’t approve of, then change and change and change, until you fit out perfect mold for the human being.” And I just don’t have time. I believe in self-actualization, and accepting my strange sexuality is a huge part of that. Im not sorry if that offends you. Your offense if your damn problem. You fear of a lifestyle that is radically different from any you can imagine is veiled behind your “concern” for my health.

This isnt addressed to anyone particular, just a general point about the health matter.

I will answering those questions in more detail in an upcoming youtube vid hopefully next week.

Comments.

Yes but all that aside, opinions or not, being the weight she is isn’t healthy. Plain and simple. I have no fear of her lifestyle and sexuality. Just too much weight for her body to function as healthily as it should and could.

Why have you made her health your business? Why do you care that she’s big? Why do you care that she may or may not be healthy other than to police her life and using the tired excuse that health matters when everyone knows it’s just a way to be able to rip on a fat person without looking shallow?

Camera Canon EOS REBEL T3
ISO 800	Aperture f/3.5
Exposure 1/30th	Focal Length 27mm

Camera Canon EOS REBEL T3
ISO 800	Aperture f/3.5
Exposure 1/30th	Focal Length 35mm